Have you ever had friends or women you knew like this?

Ever been married to someone that does things intentionally to get your attention or to "prove" that you love them. For instance, if your wife keeps leaving and then admits to you that she left because she wants you to come chase her to prove how much you love her. Or they'll say they want a divorce just for the same reasons. Now in line with that when you just say fine I can't put up with all this drama you give them what they supposedly want...a divorce and they get all mad and pissed off. Then you're the bad guy in the divorce! Seems like a sign of immaturity and has no place in a muture marriage. What do you all think? Know anybody like this? Doesn't it seem like all the good ones they are with they end up destroying the relationship by acting like this and play the victim but everybody knows it's them that caused the demise of the marriage or relationship but being their friend you can't say anything. Know any women like this?